Sunday 19 June 2011

Loyal Anna


Being a daughter of a banker,i have always been associated to a huge business family of my dad's office..I have not only got extreme good friends through it..but also a great support through it whenever I needed it. I have been to variety of places where my dad worked and met different kind of people.But there are some people i never really can forget. Among them is undoubtedly that one person who taught me what working loyally actually means.
                                                         The first time I met him was a bright sunny morning. I had been to my dad's office for some paperwork.And there he was.With sandy white hair. Sheer innocence on his strained and wrinkled face that showed he was no less than 60's. It was the first month that my dad was transferred to this office and obviously I didn't know him. "who's this old man ?" i enquired. And then my dad told me his story.
                                                        He joined the bank when he was pretty young as a peon..worked really hard..made a family and settled down..but never became anything except a peon throughout his job. But he was extremely hard working and helpful employee. No one ever complained about him. And he too was always satisfied with his job.Never had any extra ambitions and taught his children and helped them to be well-off..And then came the time of his retirement..he was respectfully and timely granted a retirement with some pension according to the policies..it was the time when he needed to relax..and do all that he had missed when he was working..
                                                        But a day went or two..he couldn't accept the idea of staying at home..away from the office he had given himself to..He came back to the office one fine morning and started working..Like any employee on duty..he cleaned the floors..made the tea..opened the cabin door every time an officer went in..arranged the files..looked for the demand drafts..got them posted..everything he used to do when he was on the job.Earlier, everyone thought it's just the matter of time...but later on..things remained the same..he would be there everyday..practically..even on Sunday's..he would clean and help..and do anything that was to be done..without expecting anything from anyone..without having the thought of payments or so..and not for a day or a month..but for 10 long years...!! His children,now settled were tired of telling him to stay home and rest..and so was his wife..but he didn't listen to them at all..he had this thought of loyalty and that got him to the office everyday..
                                                     While i listened to this..he got me a cup of tea..introduced himself and enquired me about what i was studying and what college i went..He was very humble while I answered and referred to me as boss's daughter. And then it became an habit for me to visit him every time i passed by my dad's office..I called him Anna..everyone in the office did..he was there to help everyone out..He'd be the one who would delightedly distribute sweets when any of the employee's had a promotion and would boast about it so proudly as if it were his own son's achievement..
                                                     At some Sunday's..i would accompany my dad to his office..dad would work and i would study in that calm atmosphere...and there he would be..standing near my table..giving me tea now-and-then so that i could study with a good tempo..He wouldn't benefit anything from me studying and scoring good..but he took pleasure in it. One day..when I visited him,he showed me a bright red coloured invitation card..it was a wedding invitation of a senior officer's daughter..he was delighted to find out he was invited and told me he'd be wearing new clothes on the day of the wedding..and i actually found him..wearing new clothes and coming to that wedding..he was very happy..( off course he had been to office earlier that morning and done all the chores..! ). He had a hearing problem..(he was 72 ) and my dad got a hearing aid for him..He was happy and proudly showed it off to everyone..telling that 'boss had got it for him'...
                                                     Days went by and my dad again got a transfer..I couldn't see him that often..but i remembered him now n then..and one morning suddenly..we got a phone call saying he was no more..he had met with an accident..and was dead on the spot..My dad was disturbed the moment he heard it and I could see that from his face..and guess what..I couldn't help crying..We didn't have any blood relation..neither did i know him for long..but he had touched my life...and i miss him..!!
                                                          This article may not interest many.nor will it touch most of the people..but this was the only thing i could do to repay the love he gave me..today,when everyone around switches job's all the time can never know how it is to stay loyal to an organisation and its people all your life this selflessly..even i don't..but i just admire and wish I could get a bit of his loyalty to whatever I do in my life..and pray..that we all do....!!
                                                                                               
                                                        

Monday 11 April 2011

Happiness


I was returning from my routine college the other day. Tired and pissed off due to some foolish work load. And was cursing the local road authorities for a really shabby and messed up road near my house. The repairs were going on since a week or so and showed absolutely no improvements. Rather the tar cans and stone crusher trucks made the conditions even worster. The burning sun, The shining tar and the muddy air was just unbearable. And though i was quiet comfortably covered,I was complaining silently. And then I saw something....A group of children..all under age 5..very running on those hot tarred roads...barefoot..almost unclothed..and to my surprise they had an ultimate sunshine smile on their faces..all of them...they didnt care of the sun,the heat,the entire sickening atmosphere at all..I decided to have a close look..They were kids of the poor stone crusher women. The one fighting for their daily bread..They loved their kids..Took efforts to keep them alive..And trust me the livelyness i saw on the faces of these kids was just immpossible to be seen on the faces of the kids brought up in some high class society,the one who shopped in supermalls and played nothing else but roadrash..The kids were so immensly cute..a beautiful sight to see..thier half-clothed,dark skinned bodies were all full of energy..N then i realised something what made them different from me.. They were unaware..Unaware of the complicated yet simple life they had..Unaware of the problems their parents had in rearing them..Unaware of the big bad world around...Unaware of their probable gray future..But then i thought...so what? If Being unaware was keeping them happy..what is wrong with it..? And then i realised the deeper meaning of all this unawareness stuff..We all, either happy or not..everyone of us was unaware..or may be we were unaware because we were happy..! We were not aware of the problems are maid faced...because we were so busy in making ourselves happy...just look at any general situation of any comman man's life..for instance his new job venture..he's happy and hence he is unaware of the upcoming problems he might face, because he is overwhelmed with the thought of having the job..why can't human beings just face the truth? Why do we have to depend on future and fate to teach us lessons in life.or may be just to be aware of anything ? Why do we always think our problems are bigger than anyone else's? And may be that is why we never have that fufilled,satisfied life..We just keep on complaining on everything we have got..We just are unaware all those beautiful things that have happened to us..! An instead of expressing our gratitude..towards god,nature,society we just blame others...If we just try and learn lessons from all the things happening around us..it will surely give us that kind of happiness and satisfaction..isn't it??