Saturday 24 March 2012

FRIENDS :)



                                                                           There is so much written about friendship..What new can I say..! They say friends are one of those craziest creatures in this world who'll do anything to make you smile..Who'll be in every possible danger just to make sure you are fine..and yes..friends are forever..I don't deny it at all...All I have learnt in past few years is..friends are not just meant for that..They aren't just meant for being there..Even neighbours do that..Friends..are meant to Live life in a way it should be..They are the colour and the spice..! Though they not might be there just when you need them..they are those who'll be right in your house when you are being scolded by your mom..they are the ones..who wouldn't care if its your test tomorrow and keep on calling you..Friends are those who won't stop ping'ing you when you are busy taking notes online..! Friends are natural and spontaneous..and I am damn lucky to have loads of them..
                                                 You have a bunch of friends whom you know since day 1 of your kinder garden class..Those are the people who have seen you growing up..just like your parents..They have seen you making changes in your approach to your hair styles..They have been the part of the unfading school memories..They were and will always be the ones who know how you sounded in 3rd grade..5th and then 7th..They might not be in your touch today..and you might not even call them up for a treat when you graduate or get married..But they'll always know the way you topped a subject in some unit test..they will always know what part of the tablo you were in..they'll always be the first ones to hear your dreams..and hence they'll always be special..!
                                                 Then..they'll be  junior college mates..the ones who might have witnessed your teenage tanntrums..The ones who were the part of the uncountabel truth-stare-dare games that were played in the class..they'll be the first ones to have your cell number..they might be the ones who would actually see you bringing into realisation what your dreams are..or they might even be the ones who saw you fail...they are the ones who might have caught you looking at a random guy in the campus..They'll always stay in your friends list...and no matter how long its been since the last time you saw them..they might be the ones to say.."i knew..this gal would marry a doctor" after watching at your profile change 10 years later..!
                                              There will a refresh button with the graduation college..you'll meet random people..from totally different social and intellectual backgrounds than yours..but those will be the ones..who'll help you with your assignments..they'll be the ones witnessing the serious carrier decisons you make..they'll be the ones with whom you might have the highest number of coffees..from college canteen to a street stall..They'll see you falling in serious love..and also will see you getting over it..they'll be there to celebrate even if you pass..and they'll also be the ones who'll stand by you when there is a failure..They might not be the best of friends you ever had..but they'll always be the one with whom you'd spend most of the time of the day..they'll be the ones to notice the cranky sounds you make in the lecture..they'll be the ones who'll always have a place in your contact list..and the occasional texts you might send!
                                              Then there are random friends..friends of your friends..someone whom you randomly met at the coffee shop..someone with whom you exchanged novels at the library,,someone who'll be as crazy of a sitcom as you are..someone whom you added on facebook just beacause you had a lot of mutual friends..! You might hesistate in the beginnning..but they'll be your virtual world..they'll be the first ones to share stupid jokes or even to like your newly updated profile picture..! They might be the ones with whom you could share evrything..knowing the fact that you never have to face them..!There also might be a chance of frutifull conversations and enriching talks..some might enter your real world too..! and some might just always be the virtual acquaintance..! They'll like you activity like "is post graduating at XYZ" or "got engaged to ABC"..they'll poke you..and they'll keep on doing it unless there is a different networking site in the air..! They'll always be funn!
                                          Then there might be family friends..or friends that have become a family..! who are next to your cousins when it comes to family functions! They'll be the siblings of your friends...or friends of your siblings..! They'll always know what sport you dad likes and how yummy the food at your mom's kitchen tastes..they'll be the ones who have seen you in your rage..when you are fighting with your sister over a pretty dress..they'll be the ones who can fix everything..from a lost internet connection to a broken heart..! they'll always know how you look when you sleep and how you dance when you are happy...! They'll be your parents when it comes to responsibilty and kids when they need to be heard! 
                                              Whatever category of friends you have..or you are..everyone will always be special..they might not be the 4 a.m. saviours everytime..or not even be there with you when you are in the worst situations..they'll surely be the ones who'll get a smile on your face when you watch a stupid action movie..they'll be the ones who'll always hope the best for you! they'll be those whose stories you would love to tell your kids..! Don't prejudice the word friendship..A friend "indeed" might not be the friend "in need"..They'll be the sweet little world which will be just known to you! and wishing the best for them in the only thing you can do..! why not? They'll be one who would patiently read the crazy stuff you jot down as a blog..and then hit like beacause somewhere..they could relate to all this :)

2 comments:

  1. touche!!
    you write so eloquently Renuka... you could well make a career outta this :)
    hope you do more of this!

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  2. @Asmita : thanx a lot gal...! I wish switching since years! fingers crossed :O

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